Looking for a wife

My name is . This is a serious intention.


About me

I live in Sofia, Bulgaria. I'm an engineer by trade — I build and fix complex systems. Work that pays the bills and that I genuinely enjoy.

Before that, I was a firefighter-rescuer. I hold a rescue diver qualification. I'm used to taking responsibility — at work and in life.

I don't drink or smoke.

Vladislav by the lake at sunset — full height, white shirt
Vladislav in Switzerland, Einsiedeln Abbey — traveling
Vladislav at the Ukrainian Startup Ecosystem conference
At home with the cat — warmth and quiet

My interests


Who I'm looking for

A wife. The mother of my future children. Not a girlfriend, not a "let's see where it goes." I have a clear goal — to build a family.

What matters to me in a woman

Loyalty and integrity. Kindness — not the performative kind, but the real thing, in the small moments. Modesty. A genuine desire to be a wife and mother, not just to "be in a relationship."

No bad habits. The ability to keep a home and create warmth — not out of obligation, but because it's who you are.

What doesn't matter

Your income, job title, education. The country you come from. I'm not looking for an "equal career partner" — I'm looking for my person.

Who won't be a good fit

Please don't write if you:

  • Love nightlife, clubs, parties, and drinking
  • Put your career first and keep putting off family and children for "later"
  • Live for the camera — selfies, likes, and stories matter more than real life
  • Aren't ready for loyalty and monogamy
  • Are looking for a sponsor, financial support, or a "beautiful life" at someone else's expense
  • Smoke, use drugs, or drink heavily

This isn't judgment — we just won't be a match. Better to know that now than six months in.

What I'll give my family

Protection. Stability. Problems solved, not endlessly discussed. A man you can rely on — not in words, but in what he does.

Respect for my wife and her role. I'm not someone who sees homemaking as secondary. Home is the foundation, and I understand that.

About family

I want children. Not "someday" — within the next few years. I want a big family where children grow up in love and peace, where they have both a mother and a father, each in their place.

To me, family is not a contract between two independent people. It's a union where each person gives their best.


Age

I'd feel closest to someone aged 22–26. That's a guide, not a hard rule.

If you read this and recognised what you've been looking for — write to me. One message is enough.

Write to me